So true.
I want to highlight, the "stay as Gravlike as possible" part.
The 1x rate or other superlow rate servers can't work, for the simple reason, they were made for 1000+ people/server, not 30-100 ppl. The concept having litteraly more field maps than players on a server is not going to work. Owners should understand, that making 30 people confortable is the goal they should set 1st, and if that 30 sticks, the new ones will come slowly.
For example, if I see prontera as the main hub, for 30 active online, I instantly ALT+F4 out. There is no right reason for the bigges city in the game, to be the main hub town.