RO does exist now for a long time and at the time it appeared, a lot of players were already 40-50 years old, maybe even older. When Pservers came up some offered many attractive features not seen anywhere else. I did play over 200 different servers for sure and yes being an successful adult, eventually money involved didn’t bother me much. Though it always was about having fun primary, I would play above average in general though I never won anything serious also. This story is about a rare server I did play on once. On this server it was possible to challenge the owner to play a game of chess for something special to achieve. Obvious he, or she, was a good chess player because almost no one dared to challenge him, or her. Then I am a pretty lousy chess player on a direct board game. However, I was also a very experienced correspondence player at the same time. Around 1988 I reached even a third place in the Dutch Correspondence Championship. It is not that remarkable because the really strong players would avoid this tournament. Nevertheless this all means that if any chess player, even IM or GM would have a bad position on the board with me, you could be in big trouble.
Now I took the challenge and things were not going all too well for me, obvious he, or she, was the stronger board player but then he, or she, made somewhere a wrong decision and I never let him, or her, go after that. Even Murphy law came in sight, make one mistake and the other one comes shortly after. For sure he, or she, was a better player on the board then I ever was or could be but in this game he, or she, was lost. Now for entertainment purpose, what was absolutely important for me, this person was not using a computer against me to beat me. No, the moves were original and very human, he, or she, did want to beat me without that. Great spirit! After all, it’s just a game and we only can admire each other for what we did each move and frankly he, or she, deserved to win it. After the loss, no complain, much sports, I got my reward. It was a one of a kind experience for me, I knew instead it was impossible to repeat it ever again. It was very rare and I was there and shared that moment with this server owner, one of the best RO moments I ever did have.