Need help

regarding my monks stats. I'm in the process of creating a fast cast Monk, but the problem is, I'm having a dilemma on whether I should go for a balanced build or an all in Dex build.

I've tried calculators and other stuff, but I still can't decide.

This is mainly for PVP and if VIT forbid WOE.

MAX lvl and Job level: 99/50

"Balanced Build" (No items, just base stat and job bonuses)
STR 82+8
AGI 3+7
VIT 44+6
INT 22+2
DEX 96+4
LUK 7+3
"All in Dex Build" (No items, just base stat and job bonuses)
STR 82+8
AGI 3+7
VIT 34+6
INT 27+2
DEX 99+4
LUK 7+3
Known DEX items from the server I'm playing in:
Headgear -
AOA
Cards -
Drops
Rocker
Zerom
Accessory -
Glove
Glove [1]
NOTE* No stat foods available yet.

Additional question: What cards/equips adds additional damage to occult impaction? I'm currently relying on this skill to level up, I'm specifically farming/leveling at Stalactics. Is it true that Evil Druid armor increases Occult Impaction, I read it somwhere but can't seem to find the source.
