So T says it first. =P I was going to let this drag out until it reached the fifth page before saying anything, but... Really.
I'm more surprised than anything that you two haven't resorted to complete flaming by this point. o.o; However, let's face it: In both cases, you two are equally as stubborn. Neither of you are willing to budge, and both are more devoutly supporting their argument than religious fanatics at a crusade.
I can't completely say that you should accept that you have different views, because that's not the kind of argument this seems to be. o.o
However, when it comes down to it, this isn't getting either of you anywhere.