no offense, but i beg to differ on the notion that "you should woe or quit".
I understand that every person has their own play style, but for me, i have played RO for around 2.5-3 yrs now in one server, and i find it enjoyable. I don't WOE or pvp, but the customized BG (a recent addition) is somewhat enjoyable for me. I guess it has more to do with finding real mates to party with and well i enjoy doing things with my gf-now-wife though her main is an LK and mine is a monk (so we don't party all that much), but we get things done, we party up when possible/necessary, and it's all fun. Then there's that monthly major event that's enjoyable to do together for 4-8 hours on a stretch.
So imho, if you play on average 1-2 hours a day for 3 years, RO is still fun (well depends on server too, i guess). But if you wanna play 4+ hours a day then perhaps it will get old real quick...
-w-