Oh darn... I've never exactly played with that kind of build yet.
Well, as you know, your monk will be able to take a lot of hits.
You can take magical attacks, range, and physical attacks without having to worry about dying.
The only problem is that you can hardly kill. I wouldn't say the build is the best since a Paladin for example could use Pressure on you. Plus, you can't use any skills so the best you can do is either be a godly tank, or just tank longer than most monks and deal moderate damage. Also, Occult and acid demonstration would hurt. If anyone had a card that goes through defence, it would hurt as well.
In any case:
Pure tank: Vit + Int, have both about 80 including bonus and some more on vit if you have left overs.
Valk shield + thara,
wool scarf + punk card,
tidal shoes + verit,
some armor + marc or peco peco
Int rings or whatever + vit or int cards
Feather Beret
I don't know about the weapon, something 4 slotted with fabre? lol
Hybrid: Strength, dex, agi.... All should be about 70+ or so.
Feather Beret
I don't know what's the best weapon for the best damage
Valk + thara
Some sort of dex accessory + 2 zerom or 2 Mantis
Tidal shoes + Matyr
Wool scarf + Raydric or something else if you have any in mind
Armor + marc
This is a rough guess of a good build. I've never really touched that build before and I admit, this is not exactly the best, but it's a start I think.